Unless you swipe a bottle of love potion from Hogwarts, you can't make someone fall for you. But there are certain little moments that make a guy think, whoa, I want this girl to be my girlfriend.
1. When you make the first move. Even
though times are def changing, traditionally, guys are still expected
to approach girls and ask them out on dates. That's a lot of pressure! A
casual, "Hey, wanna get ice cream later?" proves that you're brave
enough to knock down outdated gender norms and bold enough to go after
what you want, which is H-O-T.
2. When you embrace the things that make you unique. No
one else has your exact same freckles or the same cute gap in your
teeth or the same throaty laugh — these are the things that make you
unforgettable. Your confidence is hot!
3. When you bond over loving the same pizza toppings. This isn't necessarily a sign he thinks you're his soulmate, but it certainly doesn't hurt.
4. When you make soda shoot out their nose. With
your hysterical sense of humor, of course. Everyone loves to laugh, and
who doesn't want to date someone who makes them laugh all the time?
5. When you nerd out about something that's really important to you. Whether
that's the YA author you can't get enough of or the indie band that has
only a couple hundred views on YouTube, your passion makes you
irresistible. Those quirks transform you from just another girl... to the girl, the dream girl who will totally capture his heart.
6. When you can be silly in front of your crush without fearing his judgment. All
those Snapchat selfies where you pull weirdo faces on purpose =
you saying, "Hey, I'm cool enough to be myself, no matter what." And
confidence is sexy. Plus, it gives him permission to be himself without
fear of judgment. Bonus points if you dance like this:
7. When you aren't afraid to flirt. Whether
it's complimenting the way that t-shirt makes his blue eyes pop or
greeting him with a flirty hug instead of a wave, guys love girls who
are bold enough to flaunt their feelings.
8. When their dog loves you. Fluffy's approval means the world to him. So, get on Fluffy's good side with lots of head scratches and games of fetch.
9. When you offer to split the bill. Sure, he might like this move because it saves him a few bucks, but more importantly, it means that you like him for him, not the free food.
10. When you speak up in class. Voicing
your knowledge and your opinions in class (or any other time!) proves
you have a lot going on upstairs, and that you're not afraid to flaunt
it. Hey, it worked for Hermione.
11. When you get really animated while telling a story. Maybe you act out all the specific voices or do an interpretive dance to get your point across or whatever. Bottom line, you aren't afraid to be you, in all your natural weirdness and excitement. It's adorable.
12. When you remember the name of his favorite band. Or
the name of the pet hamster he had in second grade, or the make
and model of his dream car. When he knows you really, truly are
listening and caring, it makes him see you in a different light.
Everyone wants to feel important — showing him you listen and remember
what he says is the most heartfelt way to accomplish that.
13. When you disagree with him. It's much more fun and interesting to hang out with someone who challenges you rather than just agrees with everything you say. When
you take a stand and hold true to your beliefs, he gets to see how
passionate you really are and that you aren't afraid to stand up for
your beliefs. So, go ahead. Defend Mean Girls as the funniest movie of all time, even if you know he thinks it's actually Superbad.
14. When you laugh at yourself. It's
much more fun to hang around someone who has a great sense of humor and
doesn't take themselves too seriously than someone who is so worried
about how they look that they're too afraid to be themselves.
15. When you can beat him at Call of Duty. He'll never see it coming... and he'll never be able to forget it, either.
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