WHY GIRLS LOVE BAD BOYS

Why do girls love bad boys? Why can’t they see that they’re wrong for them? Why does the bad boy always get all the girls..? These are some of the questions that come to mind every time you see a young girl so crazy in love with a bad boy—you think he’s not good enough for her, especially from a moral point of view. You see a guy a guy who drinks alot, smokes, is a party monster, womanizes, and in fact leads a very reckless lifestyle, but still, girls love and flock around him; they just can’t get enough of him. Then you begin to wonder, that maybe, these guys use some kind of Voodoo powers to keeps these ladies drooling over them…


Well, you’re not alone if you have pondered on this subject; a lot guys have, and the truth is, there’s no Voodoo or magic to it. Girls are very complex and intricate people, and unless you take time to study them, you will always be in awe of their attitudes and actions. So to unravel this ‘mystery’, I spoke to a few girls, asking them what it is they love about bad boys, and they gave me some interesting responses which I split into 4.
Read on, and see why Girls love bad boys…

BAD BOYS ARE NOT BORING
As one of my respondents put it, “they are out-going and fun”. With a bad boy, there is never a dull moment; he knows just the right thing to do at any given time to make your life fun. He’s a customer to all the Dance Bars and Clubs in town, knows the coolest places to hang out, and he loves to chill at these places. He’s not laid-back, and isn’t the type of man to stay in bed with you all day, telling you romantic stories…nahhh. He’s out-going, and wherever he goes, he takes his girl with him. And when he’s not hanging out, he knows just the right game to bring to the table. He’s spontaneous. Bad boys are typically fun and exciting, and they’re just the type of people girls want in their lives. Girls are adventurous in nature; once they find a guide…they’ll go on a ride.

BAD BOYS ARE FASHIONABLE
The average Bad Boy is a player. He loves women, so he likes to impress them. He is trendy and up-to-date with the latest fashion. This keeps girls loving and wanting him. It’s no news that girls love trendy guys; once you’re fashionable, you’re at least, 70% more appealing. Think of all the smooth men around…there is not one who doesn’t dress to kill.

BAD BOYS ARE VERY PROTECTIVE
He is a ‘bad boy’, so girls already have this image of him in their head—the proverbial ‘knight in shining armor.’  A bad boy would ride or die for his chick. He is always there when she needs him. Girls see him as someone they can rely on, when the chips are down. Again, most bad boys have a bit of violence in them; they would go to any length to protect their interests—including their chick. A bad boy gets jealous at the slightest advance towards his girl, and he would fight you if he has to, just to mark his territory and stamp authority. Girls are attracted to these attributes; they wanna be with someone strong, authoritative and protective. It makes them feel safe, and that’s why sometimes, when they’re being abused in the relationship (like Shawn pointed in why ladies still love a violent man), they stick on.

BAD BOYS ARE UNPREDICTABLE
With a bad boy, there’s no telling the next move. He is smooth, sleek, and likes to surprise. Most bad boys are playas, and they know just how to play the love game. They know what to say and what not to say; for them, almost every move is calculated and planned. Today, he’s there for you, cooking your favorite meal, and tomorrow, he’s disappointing you. He can make you feel bad, and make you feel priceless all in the same day. He is enigmatic, and that makes him unpredictable and difficult to understand. You can’t tell if he’s crazy in love with you or he’s just there for the moment—his unpredictability keeps girls around him.